Finding inspiration in an unexpected place
by Wayne Elise
Yesterday during my run I ran though the cemetery. I love cemeteries. Looking at the headstones, reading the names and dates. My favorite headstones are the ones with two names chiseled on them, a husband and wife. He’s dead but she’s still living. Her date of birth is the only date under her name. Sometimes she’s outlived him by twenty or thirty years already. Kinda sad, but kinda beautiful too.
You’re probably wondering what all this has to do with meeting women. Well, it has a lot to do with meeting women, or men or whomever you want to meet.
Let’s face it, internet-dating is competitive, and full of unattractive and sketchy people. You could meet someone at work, but unless you tend bar, that number is limited. To meet someone, I recommend just walking up and speaking to attractive strangers. And that, my friends, takes guts. The guts to face possible rejection and humiliating experiences.
And that is where the dead come in. The dead have one single message for you. I hear them say it to me every time I run through a cemetery. They whisper, “See you soon.”
The dead know that you and I will one day be history. Our time is limited. The stasis of our life is illusionary. You must take advantage of your opportunities while they exist. You have an opportunity now. Too many people spend their lives wishing to find someone amazing or wondering when they will become an outgoing person who has ‘opportunities’.
Maybe they’re waiting for the perfect moment to approach that hottie at the coffee shop. Well, cemeteries are full of people who waited their entire lives for ‘that moment’. Most people never go for what they want. I walk thought the sea of headstones. Here’s a guy, Jacob Ralston 1889 -1929. [...]
What James Taught Nathan About Approaching Beautiful Women
Nathan’s Success Story: Part 2
By James
Hey guys this is James your Australian Charisma Arts Instructor continuing Nathan’s story of transformation from feeling completely frustrated to feeling he’s the ladies man he always wanted to be.
Nathan attributes it to choosing me as a mentor and repeating what he saw. These are the lessons I teach that I feel helped the most :
- Organic approaches, meeting girls naturally by reading social situations and understanding the subtle attraction signals most guys have no clue about
- Dressing more stylish, like a European, and not the typical North American/Australian,
- Managing energy so that your approaches are comfortable
- Adopting a confident posture and walk
- Eye contact to show confidence and build attraction
- Connecting with a woman’s group before you focus on her
- Carefully listening for “bonus information” about her
- Give out “bonus information” about you
- Learning how to touch a woman, initially and when escalating romantically
- Using open ended questions to lead the conversation to your commonalities
- Leading and escalating
- Planning your seduction
- Passing the tests beautiful girls give men
Nathan learned these lessons so well I’m jealous of the results he gets.
Nathan considers himself a smart, successful guy. He doesn’t waste time, energy or money trying to re-invent the wheel. Copying the success of others has brought him the results he wanted. Nathan applied directly to himself what I have learned from my life experiences. For me, it took many sales, acting, and personal development classes along with considerable travel. Nathan just found a role model he respected, who was getting the results he desired, and copied him. Too freakin’ easy!
In the last six months 20 year old Nathan has found and seduced more beautiful women than most guys will enjoy in their lifetimes and he feels he’s only getting better.
If you want to see what I [...]