I believe an approach can be made considerably easier by observing a few key points even before the approach.

I used to be so terrified of approaching I would just duck in there as if under enemy grenade attack. As anybody can guess, that made for some nasty blow ups, pun intended. Here’s a few ideas to make your life a lot easier than mine used to be.

You can skip everything that follows by answering for yourself the simple yet important question:

What makes me comfortable?

Think about what strangers do to make you comfortable. Chances are, what “works” on you will work on everybody else, too.

All you need to do in the initial stage of your interaction is to make her feel comfortable. Everything is built upon that foundation. If she’s not comfortable with you nothing will happen. If she is, well, the sky’s the limit. In order to make her feel comfortable you have to be comfortable (or at least appear to be.
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Who would be the hardest man on the planet for a woman to “blow out”? By that I mean to reject a person who comes up and attempts to start a cold conversation.
 
I reckon the Crocodile Hunter. Yes, I am serious. Try to imagine politely getting rid of a guy with that much energy and [...]