Approaching and Meeting Women in the Airport
By Dan Tena
Hi, this is Dan from Charisma Arts. I want to tell you about something I found amazing that happened to me.
Recently I flew to Los Angeles to attend my first Conversation Camp with Wayne Elise, the man also known as Juggler. During the camp Wayne taught many of the things I learned from his ebook, the forum or my own boot camp. But mostly the camp focuses on pure conversation skills, such as using humor, leading a conversation, how to not run out of things to say, etc.
Anyhow, after the camp I made my way to the Los Angeles airport for the trip home to Denver. Little did I know what was in store for me that night.
Security was quick so I found myself with an hour to waste before boarding. I spotted a bar within sight of my gate and sitting on a stool I noticed a woman sitting at the bar and talking loudly on the telephone. Just my type, 5′ 7″, black hair and nice pencils. I walked up and sat down next to her. With two days of conversation instruction from Wayne (my vote for the worlds best conversationalist) I wasn’t about to drink alone.
She said into the phone, “I gotta go. I don’t want to irritate the people here.” She then clicked her phone shut, moved her carry-on bag and purse further away from me, and turned her back to stare out at God knows what.
I spoke up anyway, hopefully loud enough for her to know I was talking to her. I said, “You didn’t have to stop talking I can sit wherever.”
She turned around. “No problem. I’m sure everyone was tired of listening to my conversation with my mom anyway.”
“Yeah, I don’t know about you but I seem to gain two octaves when I [...]
How to meet a girl in Starbucks
By Wayne ‘Juggler’ Elise
I’ve been working on simple ways to meet people. Here’s
one way that I’ve been practiced with success.
But first things first. This will not work if you are not fun and relaxed in your interactions with strangers.
So be cool. If you don’t know how to be cool then sign up for my Conversation Camp. There’s no shame if you need to learn to be better in conversation. Most people try to be the dictator of the conversation. They’re so worried about getting something out of her they squeeze to tightly. This is like trying to squeeze sand in your fist. It just pours out.
Make sure you talk to the staff there at Starbucks. Make them like you. Tell them that you want to have their job and it must be fun to talk to so many people. Make them feel good. This alone can help you meet an attractive person. If they like you a lot you can ask them to drop a chocolate off at someone’s table with your
compliments. Then wave and mosey over and tell her you thought she could use a pick me up. I mean
chocolate is the sexiest food so this is already in a good spot.
Another way to meet girls there at the coffee shop is to sit at a table within conversational distance to those cute, bookworms. Say, “Excuse me, do you know what time this Starbucks closes?”
As she fumbles around for the answer. Squint a bit at her and interrupt her and say, “You have the most intelligent looking eyes,” or “You, uh, are very attractive,” or “You have a sexy voice.”
Say this as if you have just discovered it. Believe it, over-act it. She must see that she has effected you.
She will blush and say thanks. Just keep going. Don’t [...]