by James

“In Russia , a man who cannot come up to a strange girl and start talking to her is a loser. He is nothing. It does not matter how much money he has, his education, how clever, funny or handsome he is……

Why don’t your mothers and fathers sit down with their sons and teach them teach these things? It is so basic. I do not understand how this could happen….

Do men in your culture realize they lose a lot in their own lives not being confident, when they are unable to come up to a woman?….

What woman wants man who is scared of women?”

I got all this after hearing about three good looking, tall, athletic Australian and American guys that came up and started trying to talk to my new 5′10 Russian friend, as she lay beside the pool in her bikini reading.
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When I teach a bootcamp, I hammer my clients to do a proper Statement of Intent (SOI). For those of you who aren’t up on the lingo, that is the point in the interaction when I tell a girl that I am attracted to her.

So when my clients do it, I don’t want them to be like Tiger Woods - I don’t want them to stare at the ball, grasp the club between palms with beading sweat, their hair slick with anxiety and their brow furrowed in concentration.

Hell no, she will think you are holding a big old fart in if you act so serious.