How to talk to a woman when there is nothing easy to talk about. AKA Death by Volleyball
Ever not know what to say to an attractive stranger when there is nothing about her or the environment to begin a conversation about? Boy, do we have the answer for you.
This video stars Wayne Elise as himself.
Also look for Charisma Arts instructor dR in a cameo appearance as Doctor Thompson.
The steps to talking with a woman when you have nothing to open a conversation with:
#1 Get within conversational distance
#2 Wait for your moment.
#3 Use a positive presumption. (not assumption)
Good luck. Have fun. And take a bootcamp and learn to have even more fun.
Worst acting in the history of e-videos! lol Great vibes though!! Thanks for the awesome tips.
What are your other standard phrases to start a OEQ, here you’ve used “hey, I’ve a question for you…”. I use often “I was just thinking…”
Hey Joe,
I’m demonstrating a preamble. That is something that you say just to get her attention before you saying anything important. Sounds like you do the same thing. Excellent, together we can rule the galaxy as guys who use preambles.
I think the key to the preamble is to make it all a statement while building some sort of anticipation. I use, “Hey I have a question for you.” all the time. It’s my go to phrase. But I like other ones. “Hey, this may sound wild and crazy…” is another one I like. “I noticed you over there and I had to come over here, because you made me think of something.” is another.
The best ones just follow the rules and have some creativity and build that sense that you are about to say something important in a moment, so pay attention and get ready for it because it is coming at you…”
Glad you liked it Gr, Sorry for the bad acting. We will work on that for the sequel: How to start a conversation with women who are dead.
Good stuff, I used to live in Hermosa
LOL dR “she’s dead” WAYNE: Nooooooooooooooooooo. OH there’s a cute girl over there
Bye Wayne, the angels in heaven are hotter! Doctor dR failed to revive me so our relationship can never be…
Excellent explanation, thanks! Potential blog post there on “preamble” techniques/ideas etc where you break it down more… I know i’d certainly find it helpful, even just a list of phrases, maybe everybody could add to it.
I find a lot of such phrases differ between countries (eg UK & US). I’m forever hearing, “You know,…” or “This one time, I…” when I travel in the US.
Think I’ve read your “I’ve an intuition about you…” one too.
Yeah Joe, I’ve been working on a blog about the preamble. You actually gave me an idea about it, thanks. I think I might ask everyone to write one for their country. That could be fun.
Thanks YEAH for the comment.
i was trying to do my best Doctor McCoy impersonation.
dR
i am looking for a nice lady