"Bars and Clubs Suck!!!" says one of our forum members. We disagree. It's not the fault of the bars and clubs. You are approaching in the wrong way for a music blaring, lounge-lizard crawling venue. Wayne tells it like it is about acting genuine instead of nice and relates that sometimes you have to throw the conversation out the window and pick up a different tool to meet women. Rob explains that you have maybe two minutes to escalate after you approach before you're rejected she says she's going to the bathroom and shares with our listeners the easiest way to be alone with a woman on the couch away from her friends and she's leaning in for a big fat smooch.