By GK

I feel the need to put on my detective’s hat and unmask some urban legends I’ve noticed regarding my favorite part of Juggler Method: the Statement of Interest.

I’m known for teaching my Big Four to students — four basic ways to become great with women — and the results don’t lie. (Check out my recent reviews on the forum.)  But within that four, I consider this part the most powerful: “Tell her you like her.” This is the part associated with the SOI, and if you know nothing else, know this: If you can consistently show justifiable interest in women, expect to write a fun-filled journal. It’s worked for me.

But much like The Force, the AllSpark or any other film reference my nerdy mind can think of, this knowledge can be used the wrong way. The acronym itself — SOI — can be confusing to a beginner, which is why I prefer to say “tell her you like her” or “show your interest.” Allow me to set straight some common misconceptions:

Myth: An SOI is meant to compliment a woman’s character trait and make her feel sexy.

Truth: We are not trying to make women believe they’re sexy.
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